Dec 23, 2010

21 years. These two words conjure up such images in my mind that can never be adequately verbalised. It is my parents’ 21st wedding anniversary. It is hard to believe they have survived the relationship and each other. I feel relieved, surprised, satisfied and amused to see them (or rather, think of them, as I am only 18yrs old) together. The bottomline is, I staunchly believe that they are the most beautiful, and the happiest couple in the world right now.
Dad came from a family where all was fun and games. Discipline, though not unheard of, was largely figurative.
Needless to say,mom was a stoic, very sensitive individual. Throughout the marriage, Dad’s playful comments malignantly grew into major feuds. Even now, mom cannot withstand several of my well-meaning taunts and this makes it very difficult for me to talk to her. It is only lately that she has begun to realise it is my twisted way of expressing love and affection.Several other problems came up, including financial issues. So many times a severance seemed inevitable. Yet, against all odds they carried on, supporting each other, compromising, sharing, learning. 
Yes, they have their flaws. They are not the perfect couple. But they are the perfect parents. They are the foundation upon which my sister and I have built our successful lives. They corrected us when we were wrong, and supported us against all odds when we needed a backbone. Of all the things they taught us knowingly and unknowingly, the most important has been how to maintain the balance and sanctity of marriage.
I wish them well for the years to come. Hopefully, eighteen years from now, their bright grandchildren, greying daughters and over-weight sons-in-law will be giving them a stupendous party, where their love and togetherness will envied and coveted by all. Here’s to mom and dad.
happy 21st anniversary for both of you. i just love you cz you are the best parents that i've had.
Thank you for always understanding me and helping me along the way!
For always being there, for loving me and giving me everything that I     
ever wanted!
I know it wasn’t easy, probably still isn’t, I’m always a handful, but
you never give up on me!
We wish you many happy years together in love and happiness and
most of all we wish you healthy and long lives!


we your anak gadis,
SYAZA AMIRA and SYAZA FAZLIYANA
LOVEYOU both SO MUCHH


waitttt there's another one !!


:)
AND YOUR LILEL BABYY
DARWISYAH..